Random Musings on Woman’s day !

Early morning, I was driving to work. As usual, City 101.6 FM was playing in my car. Today’s highlight was Boss Lady list celebrating International Woman’s Day. One song just caught my attention, “Mere Naughty Saiyaan Ji”, sung by Yo Yo honey Singh and Neha Kakkar and featuring Nushrat Bharucha. These days its very frequently played on radio, and I couldn’t not help noticing the irony. Woman’s day is all about woman empowerment and here two famous singers are empowering woman by making her dance in front of a drunkard.

“Matkaun Main Kamariya
Dheere Dheere Dheere Dheere
Saiyaan Ji Samne Baithe
Jam Peere Peere Peere”

Sometimes, I wonder at the hypocrisy of society. From promoting fairness creams to glorifying being drunk and at the mercy of an alcoholic. What legacy do we want our next generation to carry forward? or is at just a game of money.

A few months back, I came across one of my childhood friend. Now, this was a smart, sensitive and intelligent girl. I remembered her back then to be a bubbly girl full of life. She would write deep philosophical poems about life and death. We lost touch as we grew up other than an occasional sneak into each others social media. The girl was now a depressed and an anxious soul. She had been a successful professional but left job to accompany her husband abroad. She was not able to conceive for almost 5 years post marriage and was at the receiving end of all the sarcasm and comments her in laws could save for her. All I could do was to give an ear to her when she needed, but this brings back the question, What’s the use of forwarding Woman’s day messages and posting on social media.

Empowerment begins at home. Empowerment begins by helping those who are around you, by uplifting them. Woman4woman is just not a hashtag. There are many around you who are having difficulty standing up, give them the power to stand. Listen to them, sometimes a kind word and smile is more than enough.

Till then, we have a long way to go!!

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7 responses to “Random Musings on Woman’s day !”

  1. This is very true! There are few who wak the talk otherwise nothing actually changes !! Lovely read !


  2. Thats so very true Ruchi. There are very few who really understand what empowerment means without drawing any boundaries, leave alone walking on that line


  3. With you on this Ruchi. Our actions and words are poles apart.

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  4. Completely agree with you. I strongly feel that we dont need any such day to feel empowered. Women have so much of potential but they don’t realize it. And as. you said, it should start from our home. There are many women in our lives and around us who we can encourage , give them a listening year, or just our presence.

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  5. Dr. Surbhi Prapanna Avatar
    Dr. Surbhi Prapanna

    Yes like you I had also felt that song very annoying and it is very sad that this type of content great hit and popularity. as come to women empowerment msg, I completely agree with you that every good thing should start from home and each person should contribute in this with their best possible efforts. creating hypes and posting msg will not make a true difference in anyway.

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    1. Thanks Surbhi ..I am glad you agree


  6. You have said it all.. nothing that I will add, will make any further sense!!

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I am a histopathologist based in UK. I find solace in my work, nature and books. My musings are my own personal beliefs.


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