via Discover Challenge: Here and Now
The most difficult part is living in the present. All of us want to live in the world of dreams and illusions, for the very simple reason that it seems so enthralling, so beautiful. The future always seems so promising. It is like a fresh canvas, on which we can paint whatever we want.
The present always seems boring, the same tandem repeat of events from getting up in the morning, going to work, finishing your daily chores and signing the day off. Each week day goes in the waiting of a future weekend which comes and brings in a fresh week. Yet, we never look at those week days as a fresh canvas. Probably, most of us are bored by the monotony. Some of us don’t like where we are stuck, may be in relations or at workplace.
However, even a small break, one weekend or a vacation brings life to the withered flowers. The memories we form in those times cloud our mind and keep going till the next one. And this becomes a vicious cycle.
However for some, even the memories are painful, and living in present is a uphill task for them.
All spiritual leaders stress on the importance of being and living in the present. What does meditation do? It brings you back to the present. Now the question is If being in present is so important, what can we do ?
Right from the childhood, teach your kids to be content and happy in what they are doing. Let them choose a profession according to their abilities and according to what makes them happy and not what is the rat race and what will fetch them millions.
For those of us who are stuck….if you can change … change it now … or start a search to what stimulates you mentally and emotionally. If you are stuck in a bad job, a bad career choice, Move on. If you Can’t, find something that will motivate you and keep you going.If you are stuck in a bad relation, try to reform it. Find why it is bad and change it. Find time for yourself, cultivate a hobby.
Erase the painful memories. Forgive where you can. Forget where u cant. A little dementia won’t do you any harm.
If you can’t make yourself happy…you can’t make anyone else. So start living in the present, and find little things which motivate you.
My list is here
- My family
I am still searching more.
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